Why We Shout in Anger

A Hindu saint who was visiting the River Ganges to take bath, found a group of family members on the banks shouting in anger at each other.

Why we shout in anger

He turned to his disciples smiled and asked, “Why do people in anger shout at each other?”

His disciples thought for a while, and then one of them said, “Because we lose our calm, we shout.”

“But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you? You can just as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner.” said the saint.

A few disciples gave other answers, but none satisfied the master.

Finally the saint explained,  “When two people are angry at each other, their hearts become distant. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear one another. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.”

“What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other, but talk softly, because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either non-existent or very small…”

The saint continued, “When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they do not even need to whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.”

He looked at his disciples and said, “So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant. Do not say words that distance you even more from one another, or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.”